what should i do if a groupmate/ co-worker is unconsciously/ subconsciously/ discreetly touching her boobs in front of me when we're talking? should i tell/ ask her about it? does it make me a breast person?

Pray about it. Ask God for wisdom and discernment. You are not sure if she's doing it unconsciously. If you are convicted and are disturbed, I think it's best that you be accountable to your small group leader and try to avoid talking with her one on one.

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